The community should not waste time and resources attempting to stop those with whom we tactically disagree. Celebrate our differences! If you don't think someone is proceeding in the right fashion, stop attempting to bring them to a halt and create your own way if you feel it would be better.
Embrace and acknowledge that we are indeed in the midst of the greatest civil rights battle of this generation and we are not a fringe issue, a special interest group or on some politicians list of 'things to do'. Until we fully realize this, we can't expect our allies to do the same.