So too much autonomy will fracture the campaign -- but too much power-sharing will paralyze it. We're doomed! There's only one thing that'll guarantee a successful overturn of the marriage ban; and that's all of us reaching out, one person at a time, to family and friends and coworkers and everyone, until eventually enough voters understand why equality matters. And then even the worst campaign won't matter. So how far away are we from that point? To be honest, if this is really going to happen in 2010, we're finding it hard to be optimistic. (And so is noted civil liberties professor Dale Carpenter.) That's a lot of hearts and minds to change. Right now a win in 2010 all rests on how many people you can talk to today.

So, get to work.